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Category Archives: Self Esteem

When The War Is Over …

I hate war. I even hate the word, because war causes the greatest suffering. Even so, I used to love watching M*A*S*H, because the war was a metaphor for how to deal with life’s inevitable challenges and the fickle fate we’re all subject to. In one episode Hawkeye got angry with Radar for his naively…
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We Attract Who We Feel We Deserve

This may be the most important post I've ever written, and one of the most important you'll ever read? I saw the Facebook® post headed "There Were Times When I Wished He Would Hit Me" in Elephant Love, Dating & Relationships Group. What I went on to read was pretty shocking, and far too common.…
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Tolerance Does Not Mean Tolerating Intolerance!

After following him on Facebook for years, I couldn't wait to see him in person. As soon as the event was announced I bought a ticket right away, and waited eagerly for three months until the day of his talk finally arrived. I had no idea what he was going to talk about. After making…
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“Your Problem Is Not Low Self-Esteem! “

Emily walked in, her head held low. I had not met her before, but during our chat on the phone, she told me her self-esteem was "in the gutter." I smiled with what I hoped was a warm grin and she took a seat. After some small talk, I decided to shake things up, so…
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